however some people that i know are having a rough patch in their relationship now...it is especially harsh for those who has been together with an extended period of time...and as stupid as it may sound...i envy them in a peculiar manner too...i think that facing the problem, trying to work things out, even at the risk of losing each other is a very bold thing to do and i think it gives a very deep meaning to what being in love is (a random analogy would be that near death experience as a way to remind that you are alive) . i just pray that it will work out for it's best and they won't have to go through too much tough times to get there.

didn't used to think about this kinda of things too much but i guess being single for 4 years really made me think of things that i otherwise would not. oh let's see what bible says about being single: "Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. " (1 Cor 7:8). GG

on a totally irrelevant note here's a choreography from patrick.CHEN (this is how his company dance2xs writes instructor's name...quite seh right...let me try... peter.LOH... wa damn seh also) anw here's the vid: